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Your intuition isn't broken: How to turn up the volume (start here)

Chloe Bennett

You know that feeling when you can't quite hear yourself think anymore? When life gets so loud with everyone else's needs and expectations that your own inner voice becomes a whisper? 

I recently took some time off and quickly realised how much my intuition had been drowned out by external noise. In this episode, I'm sharing why your intuition is always there waiting for you, and how to reconnect with it through simple, micro-moment practices (not to be underestimated).

In this episode, you'll discover: 

• Why your intuition doesn't compete for attention (and what this means for reconnection).
• The difference between operating from what feels "natural" versus what feels "normal".
• Early warning signs that you're becoming disconnected from your inner authority.
• The conversation test to distinguish genuine intuitive guidance from your monkey mind.
• Simple practices to rebuild your relationship with your intuition. 
• How reconnecting with your intuition creates a ripple effect for future generations.

This isn't about developing psychic abilities or demanding louder signs from the universe. It's about returning to the gentle, patient voice that's been there for you all along. Your intuition is your internal map for navigating life as your truest most vital and magnetic self, and when you reconnect with it, everything changes. Your self-trust deepens, your decisions become clearer, and you start living life on your actual terms rather than everyone else's expectations.

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Chloe:

Hello. Hello my darlings and welcome back to another episode of the podcast. In today's episode, we are talking about why your intuition isn't broken and how you can turn up the volume, because essentially that's all that you need to do. We are going to dive into this particular topic because. I recently had some time off, and in this time off there was, it was time off from certain things, not everything. It was time off because I needed it. There has been a lot going on in my personal life. And just a lot of people needing a lot from me and coming from all different angles, and I love every single one of these people who have needed something or wanted something from me. And, I've wanted to show up and to be there. And this is something that, I'm just naturally a. Caring and giving and nurturing person. So it has been a lot of work for me over the years to be someone who is comfortable with saying no. And I got very good with my boundaries a few years ago, and ever since then have just been, deepening my relationship with my boundaries and things like that. But the reason I bring this up is because it wasn't until a couple of days into this time off that I. Started to hear my intuition in a way that I realized I hadn't heard it in a hot minute, and it was like I could just hear myself again. To put it in really simple terms. It was like I could just hear myself again and all the little ways that my intuition normally speaks to me now. To also give context to this episode. If you are not familiar, I don't know, with me, with my work, if you are, you've just found this podcast and you've landed on this episode. To give you a bit of context, I am someone who is a psychic medium. I am also an energy worker. I have the, I wanna say ability. It feels a bit strange to say that, but to anchor into and read people's past lives. And what's really interesting about my journey with my intuition and my psychic development is it's something that. I have just allowed to unfold really naturally. There has been occurrences in my life where they have really I can look at them and see, oh wow, this unlocked a new level, like a new level again and again, these certain points in time and experiences that just unlocked more and more. And, I say that and I give you that context to say that. I'm sharing all of this about intuition from a place of deep embodiment. I'm someone who gets the intuitive picture, and what I will say is that, first of all, we are all intuitive. It's it's not like some of us are intuitive and some of us aren't. I think it's a similar conversation when people are like, some of us are creative and some of us aren't. That's just not true. It's just that our creativity shows up in a different way. And same with. Our intuition, it just shows up differently. However, when it comes to our intuition, I think especially when people feel like they aren't intuitive, it's not that you are not intuitive or it's not that your intuition is broken because it can't break. All that tends to happen is the volume goes down because the external volume goes up. And as you'll come to know in this episode, as I take you through, what I'm about to take you through and, give you the insights, is that your intuition has no interest in proving itself. So therefore, it's not going to speak up and over. The external voices and the things, because ultimately, your intuition trusts you. You, even if you don't trust yourself, your intuition trusts you. Believe it or not, it trusts you. So let's dive into today's episode because. I guess too, from that time off, and that realization I had of it, it wasn't that I couldn't hear my intuitive voice. It wasn't that I couldn't hear or didn't have that connection. It was just that the external noise of what everyone else needed and wanted from me was so loud. And as someone who, as well, I find I read energy very naturally and I will more often than not read energy. Before I take in I guess the words that someone is saying, so if someone is having a conversation with me, the order in which my consumption, I guess happens is reading of energy and then taking in of the verbal words, and if those two things don't match, then I'm like, okay, there is something going on here. That is, yeah, just a little bit of extra insight into how. My intuition works and I feel like I need to do another episode on intuition in the context of like how you can look to your human design to support you, to develop your intuition or understand your unique intuitive language. There's also the different Claires that you can look to, to help you understand and establish that deeper connection to intuition. There's lots of different ways that we can work with it, and I do this with clients in the intuition in bloom sessions, and developing your intuition, cultivating. That deep self trust is something that's so important to this remembering journey. So one, that's why I have this offer Intuition in Bloom, but in this offer, this is where I work with people one-on-one, in a one-off session where we can really uncover, essentially the map to your intuition, to give you the guidance, to give you the path, to give you a little bit of insight, a little bit of yeah, just knowing of where to look, where to go, what to look for, what to listen for and where to pay attention. So I just, yeah, I just went on a tangent there, so I'm gonna bring myself right back. I'm gonna bring it back. I have had a day today where my energy has been in something that's taken a lot of mental capacity, so I can feel my open head really just starting to come. Like it's, I'm in the, come down from that, I guess in a way. And I'm assimilating that while also stepping into this, the task, of recording this podcast episode. And if anyone has issues with task switching, you will understand. So let's think about it. Often people think that there is something wrong with their intuition or that they are not intuitive. And like I said, that is not the case. The reality is that. It is just that the external noise is so loud because we are taught to think about our intuition as something that you know is broken or is inaccessible right, and it's just simply that we can't hear it clearly, because the reality is your intuition never actually goes anywhere. It's always there. It doesn't move. It doesn't have any desire to prove right. It is anchored within you, and it will always be, it is not going anywhere. If you take anything away from this episode, know that. Your intuition's never going to abandon you. It's never going to leave you. It has no interest. It has so much love for you and trust in you, probably more than you could even comprehend. So if we think about some, early warning signs that you can look out for, to know that you are becoming distant from your intuition, disconnected, or you are, more anchored in. The external noise is things like when you start hearing or even feeling the shoulds, those subtle pressures about what you should do, what you should, show up as what you should say. Any should. What you should even shouldn't be doing shouldn't be saying like, whatever it is, wherever you feel a should, that is a really great marker. Not a great marker, but it's an obvious marker that there is some, not self at play here. And if we think about the language of human design, when we are out of alignment, so to speak, we are acting from that, not self and the not self. Its job, essentially, not its job, but it's something that it prides itself in, is hijacking your authenticity, hijacking your experience, so it's just something we need to be aware of. Now, the other thing that's a little bit of a red flag for me is when I see people operating out of. Or operating, yes, physically in the way they're showing up in the world. Also, their thinking patterns. And I can see this, like I said earlier. By reading their energy and also listening to what they say, how they say it, et cetera. And this is the idea of natural verse normal. So what feels natural to your rhythm? Think about that verse, what feels normal and expected, and which place are you operating from? A lot of people are operating from this normal, because it's what's been modeled to us. It's been, it's what have we have been conditioned with yet when we think about our natural rhythm? This is something we've been conditioned out of. We've, this is something that we have been, it like, it hasn't been modeled to us necessarily because our unique rhythm is ours. And we are people who, we live in a world of constant conditioning, and that's not going away. That's the reality of the world. It's not going away. It's up to us to do what we can to stay present with ourselves and stay anchored in our truth. Also and get into our natural rhythm. And the reason I say a lot of people act from this normal place as opposed to this natural place is because of, one sentiment that comes to mind that makes this glaringly obvious is when people say, I just don't know who I am anymore. And maybe you are someone who has felt this, I think, many of us have, if not all of us, at some point, I just don't know who I am anymore. Maybe it's a job, maybe it's a relationship. Maybe it's, I, you are new to parenthood, I just don't know who her name. Who I am anymore. There's circumstances that happen in your life that cause you to question who you are, and generally I find when we are entering this space and when we start to have this awareness of, I just don't know who I am anymore, this is an intuitive nudge. This is a redirection. It is like a ping for a redirection. And it's not to say that you. Need to entirely change who you are. It's or become someone different. Become someone a better, more educated, more this, more that. It's about remembering coming back to your center, coming back to that unique super bloom sweet spot. Now, if we think about other red flags. An example from my own week off is this cumulative effect of giving your energy everywhere except back to yourself if you were stuck in this cycle of giving, get never receiving or not really allowing yourself to receive much, whether that be even from yourself, like taking care of yourself, let alone. From others. This can be a really poignant sign that you are disconnected from this inner knowing, this inner authority, your intuition, because like I said, your intuition loves you beyond what you could imagine. It has so much trust and faith in you. And if you think about. If this was a person if this was a singular person in your life that you had a relationship with and this is what they felt towards you and thought of you, they had so much belief in you and they loved you, like they just, you were everything. Do you really think that this person wouldn't want you to nourish yourself? Wouldn't want you to show up for yourself, wouldn't want you to show up in your natural rhythm, would want you to listen to all of the shoulds and all the conditioning and follow everybody else's rule instead of turning around and looking at yourself. The answer is no. The answer is no. So there are just some red flags. But before we dive into, the process of reconnecting with your intuition, I wanna share with you a concept that can help you to understand your intuition's role in your life. And this is something that you'll probably hear me start to talk about a lot in podcast episodes and, through other content pieces and things like that because I think it is just such a great example or analogy so to speak, that helps to put things into. Context and place them in a way that is easily easier to conceptualize. So what I'm talking about is the analogy of the map versus the territory. So when we think about intuition is like the map, then life, the reality that you live in every single day is the territory. Even if we apply this to say human design is the map. Your life, the way you color it, your experience is the territory, so just as you wouldn't navigate your way to an entirely new place you've never been before that you have no idea how to get to without some sense of a map, you can't go and navigate your life, your true self and your authenticity without your inner guidance system or your intuition. It. It's simply not, it not gonna happen. It's like your internal map, internal guidance system. The map doesn't disappear when you are not looking at it. It's just that you've stopped consulting it. Same thing with your intuition. Your intuition doesn't disappear when you're not listening to it. You've just stopped listening to it. So why does understanding this matter when it comes to, building your intuition, building that relationship, and listening and connecting with your intuition? Because when we abandon our inner map this inner guidance system, this intuition, we start following everybody else's directions. External voices become louder because we've stopped checking in on our own right. And the reality is getting lost isn't even about having a broken map. It's simply about not knowing how to read it anymore, it's not that your intuition is broken, it's just that you don't know the language of it anymore. You've lost that connection to the language. You've lost that channel. Everything else has gotten so loud that it has drowned it out. Now, as I mentioned earlier, like this is foundational to the work that I do with my clients because it is so important, such an important piece to remembering your true self. That version of you that you were born to be, the one who existed before the world, told you who you should be. You know how you should love, how you should live, how you should create. And again, and I'm gonna remind you probably multiple times in this episode, you're probably gonna be sick of hearing it, but I don't care.'cause you need to, your intuition never left you. It will never leave you. It always will be there and it will guide you back to the you that existed before. All the conditioning, before all of the shoulds, before all of the expectations, now when I think about my own personal journey from, disconnection to reconnection with my intuition, there is some things I guess that. I could share to give you a little bit more insight into my own experience, and maybe you will relate to some of these and maybe, I don't know, maybe not, who knows? But there is and has been, a pattern. So as someone who is naturally very giving, very solution focused, I found my energy scattered everywhere except toward myself. I was helping everyone else, but I had nothing left for my own inner connection. It takes energy, it takes presence. It takes capacity to connect to here. Life had been pulling me in so many directions. Even if I think about my life over the last couple of years, and less than two years, it no, actually just go on exactly two years. If I think about it, if I wrote a book about everything that I've navigated in the last. Two years. I don't think people would believe me, let alone my life in its entirety, but it's gonna stick to the last couple of years. But if I think about this, life has been pulling me in so different, so many different directions. I've had to hold so many things at once. The fertility journey that I have been on for a couple of years, like the last couple of years that has been huge. That in itself has actually been something that has heightened my intuition. I remember when I was pregnant with the ectopic pregnancy, there was a couple of occurrences with that, that it just blew my intuition and my psychic connection out of the water. As I mentioned earlier, those, those moments in my life, that was one of them. And then if I think about my beautiful nan and her dementia and that deterioration and, being there for her and for family throughout that and helping them, navigate thing like the family responsibilities, because most of the family support and family is interstate, and like it is just this like cumulative effect on giving. That is just two things that's. Maybe it's the half of it. I don't know. When we all add it up, it might come to the half of it. But I guess what I'm trying to say is that for me, I notice when I'm disconnected from an intuition, there is a pattern. There is a pattern of I am too far outside of myself and spending too much time outside of myself. That I really struggle to hear the voices and it's not until I pull my energy back, and this is really important for any projectors especially as well, is to pull your energy back, make sure you're not always out in the field, pulling this energy back. And if you imagine that your intuition is. In a room at the back of the house, and it is just on a little, it's a little radio that you tune into and it's always playing, but the only way that you can. Really stay connected to that is if you are in the house you can, the closer that you get to it, the closer you are connected to yourself, the closer connection and the louder the voices are, right. But the moment that you leave the house and you spend too much time out of the house, if you're not returning to the house every day, you're not reconnecting to yourself. You're not anchoring into that energy if you're staying outside of the house in other people's expectations, opinions, conditioning, all of it, it's gonna be really hard to hear. You're not gonna hear that radio when I had this time off, it was really a reminder of that. It was a signal because I know this is a pattern that if I'm spending too much time outside of myself, then I don't have that connection. So I knew that I needed to pull my energy back and I did. I finally pulled my energy back and. That's when I really started to have that confirmation of, oh yeah, that was really happening because my intuition got louder. And even I think too, it wasn't loud in the sense of there was anything wild and groundbreaking that I heard. It was the little things, the micro things, and I'll always say this, it's always the micro things that lead to the macro, so it was just the little, I'd be cooking or I'd be driving somewhere or I'd be doing something and my intuition would speak up and tell me to turn here instead of, where I normally would or put this much in, or add this into a recipe or, do this or explore this. Every time I would follow it, every time I would do it, it would work out better than I could have imagined. I would get to the place faster. The meal would be delicious. I would feel so inspired and creative, this is the gift of your intuition. And when you can hear those voices, and so many people think that it is meant to be this like grandiose thing, but often the gifts of your intuition is, like I say, in the micro moments, and if you are always connected and do your best to stay present and connected with yourself and your intuition. You won't need the big, grandiose things because all the little micro moments will lead you there anyway. So if I think about, the experience of reconnect, reconnecting with my intuition, it really only took a couple of days. As soon as I acknowledged the fact that I was too far away from myself and started to pull my energy back in, I started to notice those beautiful micro moments that I mentioned, and it was I don't know, it just. It felt like an exhale. It's like I can feel myself exhaling now. Like it just I almost don't have words for the experience of how it felt. I remember going for a walk nearby and I was near the water and just, walking along and I had this feeling. It was almost this feeling of acknowledgement of we're back, we are back, and God, it feels good. God, it feels good to be back. And this experience, I'm glad that I had it. I'm glad that, I, for a period of time I became disconnected because it just, it's brought me back in a way of, with this extra awareness, with this recognition. And I think that is such a gift, it taught me that, being DISC connection, being disconnected is something that, you know. It's worth the work, the intention, the presence, the capacity to stay. Connected because it made me realize how easy it is to drift away from our inner voice, from our inner intuition, without even really noticing that it's happening, especially with the world that we live in. There is so much noise and so many of us in human design have an open head center and this when we live with an open head center. We have a big bucket open to the world and all of its thoughts and ideas and opinions and everything. And if we are not mindful to put a lid on that bucket, to take a moment to be present, to pull our energy back, holy crap, that bucket overloads and it can bust and it sometimes cracks and it doesn't feel great. Really doesn't. When we are thinking about reconnecting, where do you even start? Where do you even start with reconnecting to your intuition? If you are listening to this now and you're like, yeah, this sounds great. I'm glad you've found your connection again, but what do I do? I'm gonna make it really simple, and I'm gonna preface this by saying, don't let the simplicity deter you. Or fool you, because sometimes it is in the boring that the breakthroughs happen. It's in the boring that the brilliance is seen. Let it be boring, honestly. Let it be boring. So let's start with coming back to this micro verse macro approach, which I've just briefly mentioned. Take the pressure off. Stop trying to solve this big macro problem, if we label the problem as you are disconnected from your intuition, okay, great. That's the problem. Don't try and come up with a 10 step process to reconnect and be back online in no time. Because that's just not how it works. Don't go consult chat, GBT to write you a 10 step plan to reconnect your intuition. AI is not gonna help you here, this is about you, your relationship to self, to your body, to your energy, to your intuition, not external forces. Instead, focus on the micro moments. Focus on the little things because that's what will lead you to this solution and this reconnection. There's no one size fits all. Perfect. 10 step like fix it strategy, 10 step plan. What you can do at any time is just be intentional about reengaging with yourself in these micro moments. The moments that, excuse me, the moments that you think are insignificant, because I promise you they're not. They're really not. And to give you some examples, like some practical examples of what this can look like. Before you, you wake up in the morning, you're laying in bed even before you open your eyes. If you can catch yourself before you open your eyes, and if you struggle with that, if you are opening your eyes and just before you even have a conscious thought, like work on that, work on waking up and keeping your eyes closed before and having a moment before you open your eyes to the day and tell yourself, today I'm open to noticing my intuition's voice. Set the intention. Today I am open to noticing my intuition's voice, and that's it. You don't have to do anything with it. You don't have to grab a catch and hold tightly what your intuition tells you. Just notice it. Pay attention, give it some attention. Give yourself your inner authority, your inner guidance system, some attention. Set intentions instead of demanding results. Instead of demanding your intuition to turn up the volume, instead of demanding it to send you another 10 signs, all the numbers on the number plates or the animals or the things. Believe me, I love them too. Set intentions, open yourself up and then do the work to recognize them. To acknowledge them. Pay enough attention that you don't need to see triple eight, five times before you think to take your intuition seriously, because a lot of the time, by then it's tired because you don't need all of that to be connected to your intuition. When I see all of that now, for me, it's just an extra nod. It's simply an extra, huh? Yeah. Nice. We are good. We're on the right track. It's never should I do this, should I do that? It's never a definitive for me. I'm not demanding the intuition, my intuition to give me something. I'm just I'm open to it because it will, it's always giving. Your intuition is so generous and it will always be. Like I said, bring awareness to the significance of seemingly insignificant moments. Notice like maybe it is noticing little glimmers throughout the day. I have little things that I just love that I see every single day, and they're so tiny. One example is the way that light leaks through trees or through the window, like in. Our home, the afternoon sun, the way it leaks through the blind and there is tree. We're surrounded by trees, so it's like leaking through the trees as well. And it just leaves this beautiful light pattern throughout the living room and I love that. That is one of my, it just, it's my little thing, which a lot of people might think is so insignificant, but I just think it's so incredible and so beautiful and it catches me basically every day that I see it. So when we are thinking about this, just remember, meet your intuition where it is in the back room of the house, sitting there waiting. Don't try and force it to be louder because it won't work. Your intuition has never left you, so there's no need for it to return. You are the one who needs to return to it. And a couple of things to note about. Your intuition and remember, the nature of intuition is that it doesn't compete. It has no interest in proving itself, or it doesn't have ulterior motives. It's most of the time very subtle, very quiet, and very neutral because it has no interest in convincing you none. The only time you'll ever really hear your intuition get super loud and maybe a little bit abrupt is when you are in a sense of danger. That's it. Your intuition is no, has no interest in competing with other voices or proving itself. It just is, and it's your job to connect to it. It's your job to give it attention. So remember. It's your job to return to it, not force you to meet you where you are at now. I know a question that comes up a lot is about distinguishing the voice of your intuition from the voice of fear or your mind, whatever it might be. And a couple of things I want you to remember. Intuition doesn't try and talk you outta things like the not self will, and an example of this, if you are, say sacral authority. You have, your sacral says yes to something, or just in general sense, human design aside, you just have this gut response. Yes, this is the thing. And then you notice your mind kick in and it starts to give you all the reasons why not that why not is not your intuition. Your intuition isn't going to say something and then talk you out of it. So if you hear something from your intuition and then you hear this like talking you out of it, like the talking you out of it is not your intuition. Your intuition will never put you in a place of danger either because the intuition, its job, part of its job is to keep you safe, there is no judgment or like convincing energy that comes from intuition. So if you're feeling a sense of judgment, whether it be toward yourself or towards others, or this energy, if it's trying to convince you, it's trying to change your mind, it's not your intuition for, like I said, sacral authority. Trust those initial instincts, but also the splenic authority as well. The spleen is, the intuition center of human design. If you have splenic authority, you need to listen to those instantaneous, they're often very quiet. They will just speak, this is what I'm gonna tell you, and then they will disappear. It's not really loud. It's not interested in, like I say, proving itself. So really trust those and move on them before the mind hijacks you and talks you out of it. Now the a little test that I like to do if I am ever in this situation, and this is something that I've shared with others and they've found quite helpful, is the conversation test. So when you have a say intuitive ping for something, and then there is a bit more dialogue that starts to build around it, just get curious and ask yourself, do I feel like I'm being talked out of something? Or not. And if you are, if you feel like there's a bit more dialogue than necessary that's building around this, get really curious and start a conversation with that particular part of yourself and ask, why is it trying to talk you out of it? What is it worried about? Get curious, build a relationship. Unpack, listen. Listen. Because you'll be surprised what you learn. Now I want to also take a moment to touch on building trust when it's not tangible or when it's not familiar either. Because some of you listening to this might be someone who, until this episode is thought that you are not intuitive and now you are like, oh wait, I am. But it's just, shows up in my own unique way. Yes, that's correct. And you might be thinking, okay, but this all just still sounds very hard and I wanna acknowledge that because it's important whether you are, you believe you're intuitive. You've had that intuitive connection and it's just dropped out a little bit and you're trying to rebuild it up. Maybe you're someone, like I say, who has never in really identified as intuitive until now. Give yourself grace, because if you haven't had this relationship with your intuition before, it's gonna take some time, your intuition will be patient. It will warm up. It will, it's not going to aggressively jump at you and start, sending you wild messages. It will be patient while you warm up to trusting it. It's not going to abandon you. This is about reconnection, not perfection, because when you, for most of your life, or a, an extended period of time have been leaning on the, expectations and shoulds and perceptions and beliefs and validation of the outside world of things, and people and all things external to you. It can be hard. It can feel tricky to bring your energy back, to come back to this place of your intuition. It can be hard to trust it. It really can, and I wanna acknowledge that and just remind you that. You can let it be simple and you can let it be boring and you can let it be so mundane and I urge you not to expect you to, get anything. Fricking groundbreaking from your intuition because like I say, it's often those little micro things that you think are insignificant that will lead you to the big, beautiful macro life, lead you to the things that you are wanting, you've gotta put all the crumbs together to have a whole loaf of bread. You gotta get all the ingredients for the recipe to, cook the cake right before you consume it. Let those little moments be magic for you. And now you might be thinking, actually you might not. So let me bring this to your attention. You may be thinking it, but yeah, you definitely also might not be. But I wanna tell you why this matters. Why all of this matters? Why does it matter that you do the work to reconnect to your intuition? Who cares if you aren't intuitive? Who cares if you're not connected? Let me tell you why caring is a really great idea. The reason is your relationship with your intuition, your inner authority, your inner knowing impacts your relationship with your self trust. The relationship you have with self-trust and the trust you have towards yourself impacts your relationship with confidence, with your ability to live, lead, and create the life that you truly want to live, that you truly wanna lead and that you truly want to create. You need those things. We need that intuitive connection. We need the self-trust. We need the confidence. We need the courage because to live in your own natural rhythm, to live from your super bloom sweet spot, it takes courage. In a world that will do its darnest to pull you out of it, pull you away from it, condition you out of it, your not self. It will have a mighty fine job trying to distract you, trying to hijack you, but it's important. Because not only for you and your own life experience, it's also for the future generations. Whether you are someone who you know, has children, wants children, or is choosing a life of being child free, it is so crucial no matter what, that we do this work because. When we think about the way that we impact the children of the future, if when we are leading children, if we are leading them from a place of conditioning, if we are leading them from a place of our not self, we are transferring those same patterns. We are cementing those same ways of being. We are cementing the lack of intuition. We are cementing the lack of trust, lack of confidence. The lack of courage. We will condition based on our embodiment, based on what we have embodied, based on where we are, not from what we say, kids watch us. Kids are so goddamn intelligent. And coming back to the self-trust piece, this reconnection with your intuition isn't just about hearing yourself more clearly. It's the foundation of remembering who you are, who you were before the world told you who to be. You can't do you know the work of self remembering without rebuilding that relationship with your own inner authority. Because self-trust requires intuitive connection. And when you have that foundation of inner knowing, it changes everything. You are able to take risks that feel aligned, have honest relationships, be honest in your conversation, share your truth where you don't abandon yourself and you back yourself in ways that you never could have when you were stuck in the loop of second guessing yourself, when you do this, when you remember, when you anchor that self trust and this intuitive connection. And think about it, deep self trusts creates a really beautiful ripple effect where you start living life on your actual terms, not on the terms that you think you should be living by. And it just happens. It's not something you really have to intellectualize, it just happens. It's a result. It's the cause and effect, it instead of constantly seeking external validation for your choices, you embody showing up as your own authority, and that shift is game changing. Let me tell you. Yeah, your decision making starts coming from this really grounded place of inner knowing rather than fear from obligation or like what others might expect of you, what you perceive they expect from you. No more trying to calculate the impact before you make a decision, before you share your truth. And then coming back to how does this affect the future generation? Children don't learn self trust from what we tell them. They learn it from watching us trust ourselves. When we're operating from this connected and grounded place, we are teaching the next generation through our example, rather than through our fears or even any kind of trauma, this particular generation and the generation's coming. I'm a millennial and there is been a lot of us millennials doing the work of generational healing, so we don't pass it on, this is part of that, so we don't pass it on. Imagine a child growing up, watching someone in their life and thinking, I want to trust myself like they do. I wanna be able to speak up like they do. Show up confidently like they do, be a goofball and not be embarrassed like them. That's the kind of modeling that creates this lasting impact. We have an opportunity to create a legacy where children never have to forget. They're in a knowing in the first place where they don't need to spend years remembering their truth because then magic is nurtured from the beginning. They never forget, how can we show up in our own remembering so that we can nurture future generations never to forget? And intuition is just one piece of the puzzle, we are talking about breaking these cycles of self abandonment before they even begin. So this next generation doesn't have to spend years undoing the conditioning. This is about creating a foundation where inner knowing self-trust and true self-healing are just the normal way of being. It starts to reconnect us with our own inner voice, and if we can stay grounded and anchored in this place, like what a beautiful life you get to live. Now, I feel like I could probably continue to talk about this for a really long time, but I'm not gonna bore you. I'm gonna wrap up with some mind, some reminders. Number one, your intuition isn't broken. It's just buried under external noise. You don't need to fix your intuition. You need to remember and reconnect if you are feeling like. Or you are having moments of, I just don't know who I am anymore. Firstly, you're not alone. You are really not alone. Remember connecting back to this inner voice, your intuition, your inner authority, your inner knowing. Whatever feels good for you in terms of titling it, naming it. This is a beautiful place to start. Now if you wanna practice to come away with one, you, I gave the practice earlier about before you open your eyes, set the intention that you're opening, open to receiving whatever it is your intuition wants to share with you today. So that could be it. If that doesn't feel like it, choose one moment every day, micro moments to check in with your inner voice. It could be when you're sitting on the toilet and you ask, what does my intuition want me to know right now? And just listen. You don't have to do anything with it. Just listen. Another one could be to notice when should start to take over and pause and ask yourself. You just gotta catch them. You just gotta like when? When you hear it, when you feel it, just catch it. Just pause and ask yourself what feels natural versus normal for me in this scenario? What might be me operating from normalcy? Verse, my natural being, my natural living. Just notice once again, you don't have to do anything with it. Just notice like this step one is just paying attention, just listening and practice having the conversation test as well. Like I mentioned earlier, is this trying to convince me of something? Convince me into or out of, or is it just guiding me? Is it simply giving me the information right. Giving me the guidance, the intuition, the whatever it might be. Now, if you would love my support one-on-one to look at your intuition blueprint, let's call it, you will have a unique, everybody does. Has a unique way of connecting that intuition has a unique language. If you want my support in uncovering this, diving into it, and giving you some personalized strategies and guidance around this, you are more than welcome to book yourself in for a Intuition in Bloom session. I will link that in the show notes for you below, and if you were like, you know what? I think I need more than one session. You can work with me inside of my private mentoring container, and we can go a lot deeper into this. Sometimes some people just need one session, and I'm all about that. I'm very cardinal in my natal chart. I get it. Sometimes we just want one session and sometimes we want to go deeper. We want more time to unpack, expand, and really reconnect. So that is also linked in the show notes and on offer for you as well. Now my final thought I'm gonna leave you with and then I'm actually finishing this episode. Remember, returning to your intuition is a returning home to yourself and when you are home within yourself, you become a beautiful example and evidence for those around you to create deeper relationships with you and also to nurture and honor the magic of future generation. Thank you for being here for today's episode. I loved recording it for you, and I will be back with another episode very soon. Bye-bye for now.

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